BALANCE IS PARAMOUNT!

Posted in Judy Fraser passed away Christmas 2018, quietly, at home with her family. She will be much missed by many.

If we are able to find balance and honor another person’s wishes equal to our own we find that our pathway is relatively smooth in all  our relationships.  Not an easy ask for if we compromise too much, we sell ourselves short.  If we assert our status with too much passion all relationships suffer.  We begin to realize that the pursuit of happiness involves much more than we realize and must follow universal principles,  plus the appreciation of beauty, love for the sake of loving, harmony and trust so that all are honored and free!  We don’t have to sell ourself or anyone else short in the pursuit of these things. We must free ourselves from those who dictate terms rather than discuss them, the bullies who victimizes, the victim who latches on and sucks us dry even if these are external encounters of an internal state of mind.  Only when one is a direct reflection of the other do we have the possibility of complimenting one another.  

Yes, it is a confusing and chaotic time as we try to process, communicate and understand what is being asked of us right now.  We are trying to establish ourselves within new groupings where the people we associate with have similar levels of respect and appreciation of us as we do towards them.  Do our expectations compliment those of others or not?  Have we assumed parity and is it being demonstrated?  If outer situations no longer fulfill our inner need we do not need to lash out in our frustration, we need to go within until we are able to make sense out of apparent nonsense.  Only when we understand can we explain what we mean to others, until that time it is better to keep our own counsel.

Many have been visiting old wounds, and the idea is that we let them go once and for all.  The more we are able to let go the more holistic and whole we become.  The emptier we become then as the energetic refill occurs it is to a much higher standard and all residual political shenanigans fall away.  We are freed of our more rebellious tendencies as we release shackles that made us feel tied, bound or restricted in past times.  We are no longer who we once were so we must experience old shadows to update and upgrade ourselves to who we are now.  It is a natural process and not one we should shun, we wouldn’t know what was a peak or a valley is without the two points of comparison. 

There is a lot of fire around  so we need to take care as to what we fuel within our emotional responses.  It can feel as if we crackle with electricity, many have experienced this as headaches and sore ‘tight’ scalps as we question life and how we are living.  A heaviness in the legs and feet denote the psychic debris we are wading through.    It is no longer a dreamy experience when we waft along, more it is an urgent message to get out of our own way and let The Management Manage so all who are capable become of Earthy use.  We need to anchor ourselves and prepare to meet our Heaven on Earth.  We cannot possibly understand the implications of this but we can be responsible for what we project.  If the projections of those around us appear harmful to us we can stonewall them, if on the other hand they appear supportive we freely explore, discuss possibilities and compare notes.    

One of the reasons why we train is because it is essential we process our frustration within so as not to project our fury at the nearest innocent bystander, nor run away from our family, job, relationship or home in the heat of the moment.  We observe the fire within in a more detached manner taking responsibility for our explosiveness, irritability, volatility and the passion being stirred up within us and around us.  We try to work to the highest spiritual principles rather than adding to the gossip, political intrigues of historical ignorance present on the Earth.  If we want to work for the Light then we have to demonstrate that lightness in living.  Care, trust, tolerance and good humor are all tools we must make use of.  The onerous heavy approach only adds to past historical ignorance and warring.

We can only keep our balance when we align with the Greater good and synthesize opposites.  Then we have peace within and are a live demonstration of it wherever we go.  This will affect and attract those of like mind whatever we are doing and wherever we are situated.  There is no personal ambition but there is a burning desire to compliment and add to the Greater Good.  True oneness recognizes and embraces differing presentations and does not feel a need to compete, criticize or condemn these people.  We have to make decisions how to proceed and should be much too busy working our way back to the purity of all that is and can be.

Peers comparing manners of working can be freeing to all, for there is no need for any to dominate or enslave anyone else.  This is the leadership we are all aspiring to now.  To free ourselves we release past experience, while showing patience regards what is to come.  If we trust that all is as it should be and it will be well then we are safe and secure within the present even if we feel a little naked and vulnerable while changes take place.   Of course we have to get over our annoyance that the Management Upstairs has not consulted us on how the Earth is to be run first!  especially our part within that plan, it is called walking forward blind in faith!  Secondly we are asked to appreciate the beauty on the Earth and forgive the ignorant who have polluted it for us along the pathway of Karma to date.  Thirdly we forgive ourselves for our arrogance in thinking anything else and recall modesty and humility.   One of my teachers described this as getting out of your own way, something I understand more and more and remind myself of often.  Time to walk up to those walls of negativity we put around ourselves and to walk through them.  They maybe spiritual, cellular, DNA ancestral patterning, mental, emotional or physical debris time to move into clearer more rarefied atmospheres.   If we have the willingness to let go of ‘props’ we no longer have need of It can be done!