Spiritual Guidance

Guidance does not involve telling someone how to be, rather it supports someone becoming more of who they are.

The complications within life make some belligerent, whilst others try to become invisible. Freeing and honouring a life process, whilst dealing with the demands of others, takes the skill of listening and seeing what is not being said, as well as sifting through what has been said, to unearth the hidden gems already there but buried or perhaps undervalued.  The process is served by meditation practises that are practical, feedback that is encouraging and the support, guidance and experience of those who have walked the path before.

Anyone on a spiritual path needs guidance and we are all on a spiritual path; a realisation now increasingly acknowledged - even if reluctantly. Spiritual "promotion" reflects on emotion, and we have to learn to handle that step by step - often whilst under increasing pressure.

Guides/mentors/coaches, who themselves will have honed their natural and proven wisdom across a wide life experience, endeavour to ensure those striving to find and follow their own path can both do so and stay on track - until they can arrive at a state of peace both, within themselves and around others!


PersonalSupport/ProfessionalSupervision/SpiritualGuidance (PSG):

  • offers an individual or peer group support service to anyone endeavouring to follow any spiritual path
  • has proven invaluable over decades to individuals and organisations seeking to address specific issues
  • is the heart of i-SKY and we encourage each of our team to utilise PSG toward maintaining the highest standards in service to others


"Right Action" is proposed in many forms and in many traditions. "Right Reaction" is less commonly promoted.

We don't promote one "ism" over another, perhaps "Lifeism" would better describe our attitude, but our approach to spiritual guidance is seven pointed.

1.  A disciplined approach to emotional discharge
2.  Taking personal responsibility for atmospheres
3.  Building a safe space both within oneself and externally - for others to inhabit
4.  Maintaining personal balance as we take on higher standards and work with the "Management Upstairs" - whilst recognising that we are also responsible for deeper aspects of historical ignorance in ourselves, our families, our communities etc
5.  Balancing personal and collective rights and responsibilities 
6.  Learning when to challenge and when to keep quiet and how best to go about both
7.  How to present oneself; knowing when to hold fast, when to walk away and how to limit damage and be as harmless as possible at all times


i-SKY has always been about working with people who also want to work with us, in the way we work and to the standard we work to (or better). Setting or meeting a standard as a one off, is easier than maintaining and raising all of ones standards over time. Keeping up oneself is easier than trusting that ones peers are doing so too. Engaging in an ongoing program of spiritual guidance became a requirement for i-SKY team members, during a period of rapid expansion, to ensure we were all continuing to strive to be the best we could be and to support those who worked with us in doing the same. The program was established under the direction of Judy Fraser who honed the process through four decades of service - often referred to as the Second Aid work. PSG continues to embody the Second Aid philosophy and is now offered as a group or one to one service by Darryl O'Keeffe and/or Guru Dharam Singh Khalsa to anyone endeavouring to follow any spiritual path.

PersonalSupport/ProfessionalSupervision/SpiritualGuidance (PSG) is offered as a support service to anyone endeavouring to follow any spiritual path.

The program is tailored to each individual, for as long as s/he chooses, and takes the form of:

1.  Written Application (or other recorded media e.g. video in special circumstances).

2.  Inititial one to one session with supervisor (in person or webcam).

3.  Subsequent review sessions with supervisor (in person or webcam or email) - ongoing.

4.  Small peer group review sessions with others in the process (in person, or webcam or email) - ongoing.

If you would like to know more about this service please email us here and/or make online payment here and we will contact you.


Judy Fraser had vast experience of working with groups and individuals - assisting them to find their core identity and then to honour it. This was, and is, a highly specialized undertaking that requires a very particular skillset: one that can only be fashioned in the crucible of long life experience and the arena of rigorous therapeutic engagement. True expertise combines an aura of down to earth practicality and a timeless methodology: unvarnished, direct and effective. 

i-SKY were fortunate to have Judy set the practice and standard for PSG that we now seek to maintain and promote. The spiritual path is an arduous, challenging and relentless road which constantly reflects back to us our own shadow, unconscious agendas and unresolved emotional issues. Our capacity to unravel this web of projection is significantly enhanced when we employ what the Japanese call a Sensai 'one who has gone before'. Eventually all paths lead to one; we are all on the same journey; we are all seekers, sharing companionship along the way.

Darryl O'Keeffe & Guru Dharam Singh Khalsa