Are you finding your way up the mountain?
Posted in Judy Fraser passed away Christmas 2018, quietly, at home with her family. She will be much missed by many.
Finally a great deal is coming to an end this month. And, we can sense the new but we do not understand the implications of it as yet, as it involves both individual and collective changes. This transition often represents as a time of high tension and low vitality as we must wait in the void until the green light shows, only then can we take our official next step forward. The traffic lights seem to have been on red then amber for a long time but now the game has changed and so has our involvment within it. This month we may have taken a last look back prior to the old door closing whereas in February the release of grief (anyone have lung issues?) stimulated the release of family karma that had been dormant for a while. We’ve been trying to get over ancient anger and blame issues. It never announces itself as coming up for release, it just comes into our experience. It surfaces along with feelings of frustration, resentment, or, perhaps even feelings of failure that we are not been a perfect loving unconditional being. The need to sacrifice endlessly is over, we’re just a ‘real’ person doing and being the best we can be NOW.
The year of the goat/sheep can bring care, compassion, calmness, peace, perseverance and tenacity as we find our way toward the mountain top. Our way may not the the way of another, all ways are valid and can take us to the same destination via varying pathways. Some need to take the easier, slower more gentle routes, other attempt more high risk arenas. Let’s hope that some of the violent and brutal energy calms down and each one is inspired to continue with projects and creative endeavours that work towards the interests of the majority. What once was our ‘bag’ to work with is no longer. We are into a new era and we move slowly and gently so as not to put the lives of others more at risk then necessary. We can only do this by being ourself rather than trying to imitate another.
This month I’ve met lots of people who are determined to tell others how they should live their lives! All being recounted as if others would welcome and be welcomed by the person whose life is under scrutiny! It would be laughable if it were not so sad. Try to mention that there might be a different way to go about things is to comment at your peril! At this time each will become more aware of how they may appear to others in the world. And we must take charge of how we react and respond towards others even if the negotiation appears hostile, it is the passage to a more peaceful co-existence. Are our actions and reactions of consequence? Yes, they most certainly are provided they are peaceful in intent towards all that that we attract? The key to maintaining good humour is to remain in the present moment while keeping our eye on the path ahead. That is our own path rather than the path of another! As we focus on what is our next step we more easily prepare for hurdles in our path, we keep our attention in the present we reduce our stress and anxiety as a result.
For a long time we’ve been dealing with ‘old ego stuff’ from time immemorial as we sorted out what was old, what is not relevant and what we need right now as we started walking the burning ground that was to take us from past to future. This month we have finished with that for now and are into rebirth, renewal and regeneration. As a result a more creative form of living and service awaits in which we need the capacity to be more understanding. Regardless of our external sexuality we need to makes friends with the masculine ‘doing’ side of ourselves as it relates and interacts with the feminine ‘being’ side. They become lovers under the guidance of the Higher Self and the Earth’s administration. Old issues must be ironed out so they fuse in common service to the future. Only then is there the possibility of attracting into our space others who mirror, focus and compliment our efforts rather than connecting to those who rile us, and us them.
Time to spent a little inner time working out how we are received by others. Do they want to be around us or do they try to avoid us? Do we appear accommodating and good humoured or are we just too demanding? Do we assume it is our right to get what we want or are we dogmatic and bossy so others give us a wide berth? Have we wronged, or been wronged through being assessed by what we have done rather than who we really are now?
Good humour, openness, flexibility and truth breed trust. Groups are breaking up, re-forming and being moulded to enable greater learning for all. That is managed far beyond our level of understanding but it is administered in the here and now. We are easing our way into negotiations where all win and none lose. We are just being guided towards different objectives which will have different outcomes. How do we best manage ourselves during collective transition? Hopefully with good humor and honour towards all, ourself included. We are not being asked to judge the merits or bahaviours just to honour them.
Do we place the same values on others as we place on ourselves? Do we give respect and adequate recompense to those who give their time and skill or do we take their ability for granted? If we have a leak we call a plumber, if our car packs up we call a mechanic, if we are having a baby we call a midwife and so on. We don’t say sorry to disturb you, sorry you’ve lost a nights sleep sorry you got so discomforted, we are duly grateful and happy to pay for services and skills that are beyond our abilities. Are we as honourable when it comes to those who guide us with wisdom and care? Do we acknowledge their time, skills and efforts in the same manner or do we presume and assume we are worthy and they are fortunate to have the opportunity to speak with us?
How many people spend much of their life in meetings, endlessly debating the same projects without ever reaching agreement? If we we are able to show understanding and love towards one another, it becomes so much easier. But they one comes without love, and all they do is criticize, contradict and confront one another, we don’t reach a solution. When we are able to sit down at the same table to discuss something with an open mind and an open heart, it can sometimes take as little as five minutes to solve a problem, but without this openness on all sides we achieve nothing, even after years of trying. Some folk reason and analyse, others draw on their feelings and inner guidance. They can be of great service to one another when they don’t argue which way is the best way!
This month we can resolve grief, anger and blame, and find a new strength within. Is an old drama from the past holding us down or will it build our strength? It is the strong that create real, lasting change here on Earth. Are we strong enough to choose to say no to something that is harmful for us? Are we strong enough to say yes to something that may scare us, but is really safe (like being creative or loving another)? Are we strong enough to love ourself so much that we feel blessed to be alive as we take what we need of collective love and let that overflow to those who surround us? If this becomes our intention then it will extend onto those we meet as a telepathic service, no need for big discussions or thanks it just IS.